Last night, as I do most nights, I walked down the hall to my teenage daughter Melissa's bedroom, in preparation for her daily hug and kiss goodnight.
This bedtime ritual has become, at times, the best part of my day. For it is during these moments, as Melissa lies comfortably cuddled under the covers, that she decides to open the door, ever so slightly, and let me into her world. I may get the chance to soothe her worries over homework and tests, or merely discuss the hum drum topic of weekend plans. She may share the latest antics of both friends and foes, fret about balancing her hectic schedule, or describe the songs she has planned for her band practices.
I listen to each topic, give support and wisdom when asked, and relish in the wonderful, albeit brief opportunity to bond with my baby.
With the exception of last night.
I walked into her room only to be greeted by an empty bed. With a pang I remembered that my daughter and I were temporarily separated by hundreds of miles. She had spent a week in North Carolina with her cousins and grandparents, a major first in her young life! Of course, we had visited our family many times, but never had Melissa traveled south without the safety of mom and dad by her side.
Tomorrow my "baby" will turn 16, certainly old enough to travel alone.
But will she ever be old enough for me to let her go?
As Melissa's birthday approaches each year, I am drawn to the dozens of photo albums that gather dust on our living room book shelf. Pages and pages of her sweet smiling face stare back at me as I progress from photos of the newborn who entered my life on July 1, 1997, to the beautiful young lady she has become today.
During Melissa's early years, I made a habit of writing her monthly letters, with the hope that someday, when she became old enough to appreciate and understand, she'd go back and read my words to fully appreciate how much joy she brings to my life.
The following is an excerpt from one such letter, written when Melissa had reached her 18-month milestone.
"You've become quite attached to me, and I affectionately call you my ball and chain. I can't leave the room without you getting upset. When I go to the bathroom, you pound on the door. Even when I am doing the dishes, you cling to my legs. But that's ok, I love the attention."
All these years later, I still love the attention........even though it comes far less often. For at 16, other priorities beg for her time. Yet, during those quiet moments when we are alone, at the end of a long day when slumber beckons, I am still the lucky recipient of Melissa's affection.
Melissa, I may have to accept that you are growing older, spreading your wings and becoming more and more independent with each passing day. But my baby, I'll never let you go.
Happy 16th birthday my dear, sweet, beautiful, wonderful, talented daughter.
|Me with my beautiful "Sweet 16" Happy Birthday Melissa!|
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Wow, I can't believe she is 16!!! I love the picture of the two of you, just gorgeous. I hope she has a wonderful birthday!! It really goes way too fast doesn't it?! xoReplyDelete
Thank you so much Kathy! I think we were reading each other's blogs at the same time! There was definitely some bloggy telepathy going on!!Delete
What beautiful words to say for your daughter!ReplyDelete
Thank you - she is so special to me!Delete
Aww what a sweet post. Thanx for sharing with us. :)ReplyDelete
Thanks for visiting Jennifer!Delete
awe...my lil one is not quite 16 but she's went on a weekend trip with my parents last year and it was SO TOUGH! even though I knew she was safe =)ReplyDelete
It's so hard when they are away isn't it. I don't know what I'm going to do when she goes to college!Delete
I hope that your daughter has an amazing Birthday. She is a beautiful young lady.ReplyDelete
Thanks so much Christy!Delete
I've never actually seen a close up pic of you! What a beautiful family Lisa and what a lovely tribute and birthday post for your daughter! Thanks for sharing it with us!ReplyDelete
Thank you so much Lexie you made my day!Delete
Happy Happy birthday to your daughter. She's really sweet. Lovely tribute to her.ReplyDelete
what a beautiful post, what a beautiful girl.ReplyDelete
I hope she had a very happy birthday!